http://mandagirl.com/2008/01/21/terrified-mortified-humiliated/ Thu, 11 Mar 2010 04:22:41 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 http://mandagirl.com/2008/01/21/terrified-mortified-humiliated/comment-page-1/#comment-505 Katrine Sat, 26 Jan 2008 00:27:15 +0000 http://mandagirl.com/2008/01/21/terrified-mortified-humiliated/#comment-505 I was in an embarassing situation once where a total stranger confronted me and told me how I should take care of a sticky situation with my 6 year old son. I was so shocked and humiliated that I didn't respond to her. I will forever regret that I didn't stand up for myself and put her in her place. At least you took the opportunity to let her know that she could not talk to you like that. Your mom's right, forgive yourself! I hope you feel better soon. I was in an embarassing situation once where a total stranger confronted me and told me how I should take care of a sticky situation with my 6 year old son. I was so shocked and humiliated that I didn’t respond to her. I will forever regret that I didn’t stand up for myself and put her in her place. At least you took the opportunity to let her know that she could not talk to you like that. Your mom’s right, forgive yourself! I hope you feel better soon.

]]> http://mandagirl.com/2008/01/21/terrified-mortified-humiliated/comment-page-1/#comment-500 Lindsay Tue, 22 Jan 2008 21:07:07 +0000 http://mandagirl.com/2008/01/21/terrified-mortified-humiliated/#comment-500 I hope getting it all out helped. I know that you felt horrible, but as an outsider looking in, that lady was crazily irrational. Like you said, maybe you needed it to happen to learn some valueable lesson, but let it just be that - don't feel bad or guilty anymore. Miss you already. I hope getting it all out helped. I know that you felt horrible, but as an outsider looking in, that lady was crazily irrational. Like you said, maybe you needed it to happen to learn some valueable lesson, but let it just be that – don’t feel bad or guilty anymore. Miss you already.

]]> http://mandagirl.com/2008/01/21/terrified-mortified-humiliated/comment-page-1/#comment-499 SmockLady Mon, 21 Jan 2008 21:05:27 +0000 http://mandagirl.com/2008/01/21/terrified-mortified-humiliated/#comment-499 I wish I could help. cyber hugs coming your way though. I wish I could help. cyber hugs coming your way though.

]]> http://mandagirl.com/2008/01/21/terrified-mortified-humiliated/comment-page-1/#comment-498 Manda Mon, 21 Jan 2008 20:16:14 +0000 http://mandagirl.com/2008/01/21/terrified-mortified-humiliated/#comment-498 When something like this happens... don't you guys replay it over and over? I can't help it. I realize that it's all over. I'm over it but it's just one of those... what if's?? What if... Don't you hate that feeling? When something like this happens… don’t you guys replay it over and over? I can’t help it. I realize that it’s all over. I’m over it but it’s just one of those… what if’s?? What if… Don’t you hate that feeling?

]]> http://mandagirl.com/2008/01/21/terrified-mortified-humiliated/comment-page-1/#comment-497 Brooke Mon, 21 Jan 2008 18:43:32 +0000 http://mandagirl.com/2008/01/21/terrified-mortified-humiliated/#comment-497 I'm so sorry you had to go through whatever happened--it DOES sound awful. I don't have anything profound to say but it sounds like you are letting yourself learn from the situation...and even with whatever happened, you and your family are okay. We all make mistakes. I’m so sorry you had to go through whatever happened–it DOES sound awful. I don’t have anything profound to say but it sounds like you are letting yourself learn from the situation…and even with whatever happened, you and your family are okay. We all make mistakes.

]]> http://mandagirl.com/2008/01/21/terrified-mortified-humiliated/comment-page-1/#comment-496 Leticia Mon, 21 Jan 2008 17:35:50 +0000 http://mandagirl.com/2008/01/21/terrified-mortified-humiliated/#comment-496 Don't be so hard on yourself. I hate that you don't say what the situation is...because maybe we could put it all into context and re-assure you that it is ok. It has all passed, you survived, you are ok. Whatever happened, there is NOTHING that you can help by continuing to worry about it and stress yourself out. Don't waste anymore energy. Deep Breath. Its ok. Don’t be so hard on yourself. I hate that you don’t say what the situation is…because maybe we could put it all into context and re-assure you that it is ok. It has all passed, you survived, you are ok. Whatever happened, there is NOTHING that you can help by continuing to worry about it and stress yourself out. Don’t waste anymore energy. Deep Breath. Its ok.

]]> http://mandagirl.com/2008/01/21/terrified-mortified-humiliated/comment-page-1/#comment-495 kerflop Mon, 21 Jan 2008 08:43:56 +0000 http://mandagirl.com/2008/01/21/terrified-mortified-humiliated/#comment-495 Mand! I'm up, do you want to call me?? Mand! I’m up, do you want to call me??

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